Why I can not speak correct english

My Question is why I can't speak right English when sometime I write very right english

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  • You don’t actually need to follow every single one of these steps to quit a habit,
    but the more of them you do, the higher your chances. I recommend all of them if
    you want to be all in.
    1. Have a big motivation. Lots of times people quit things because it sounds
    nice: “It would be nice to quit caffeine.” But that’s a weak motivation. What
    you really want is strong motivation: I quit smoking because I knew it was
    killing me, and I knew my kids would smoke as adults if I didn’t quit. Know your Why, and connect with it throughout your quit. Write it down at the top
    of a document called your “Quit Plan.”
    2. Make a big commitment. Now that you know your motivation, be fully
    committed. A common mistake is say, “I’ll do this today,” but then letting
    yourself off the hook when the urges get strong. Instead, tell everyone about
    it. Ask for their help. Give them regular updates and be accountable. Have a
    support partner you can call on when you need help. Ask people not to let
    you off the hook. Be all in.
    3. Be aware of your triggers. What events trigger your bad habit? The habit
    doesn’t just happen, but is triggered by something else: you smoke when
    other people smoke, or you shop when you’re stressed out, or you eat junk
    food when you’re bored, or you watch porn when you’re lonely, or you check
    your social media when you feel the need to fill space in your day. Watch
    yourself for a few days and notice what triggers your habit, make a list of
    triggers on your Quit Plan, and then develop an awareness of when those
    triggers happen.
    4. Know what need the habit is meeting. We have bad habits for a reason —
    they meet some kind of need. For every trigger you wrote down, look at what
    need the habit might be meeting in that case. The habit might be helping you
    cope with stress. For some of the other triggers, it might help you to
    socialize, or cope with sadness, boredom, loneliness, feeling bad about
    yourself, being sick, dealing with a crisis, needing a break or treat or
    comfort. Write these needs down on your Quit Plan, and think of other ways
    you might cope with them.
    5. Have a replacement habit for each trigger. So what will you do when you
    face the trigger of stress? You can’t just not do your old bad habit — it will
    leave an unfilled need, a hole that you will fill with your old bad habit if you
    don’t meet the need somehow. So have a good habit to do when you get
    stressed, or when someone gets angry at you, etc. Make a list of all your
    triggers on your Quit Plan, with a new habit for each one (one new, good
    habit can serve multiple triggers if you like).
    6. Watch the urges, and delay. You will get urges to do your bad habit, when
    the triggers happen. These urges are dangerous if you just act on them
    without thinking. Learn to recognize them as they happen, and just sit there
    watch the urge rise and get stronger, and then and fall. Delay yourself, if you really want to act on the urge. Breathe. Drink some water. Call someone for
    help. Go for a walk. Get out of the situation. The urge will go away, if you
    just delay.
    7. Do the new habit each time the trigger happens. This will take a lot of
    conscious effort — be very aware of when the trigger happens, and very
    aware of doing the new habit instead of the old automatic one. If you mess
    up, forgive yourself, but you need to be very conscious of being consistent
    here, so the new habit will start to become automatic. This is one reason it’s
    difficult to start with bad habits — if there are multiple triggers that happen
    randomly throughout the day, it means you need to be conscious of your
    habit change all day, every day, for weeks or more.
    8. Be aware of your thinking. We justify bad habits with thinking. You have
    to watch your thoughts and realize when you’re making excuses for doing
    your old bad habit, or when you start feeling like giving up instead of
    sticking to your change. Don’t believe your rationalizations.
    9. Quit gradually. Until recently, I was a fan of the Quit Cold Turkey
    philosophy, but I now believe you can quit gradually. That means cut back
    from 20 cigarettes to 15, then 10, then 5, then zero. If you do this a week at
    a time, it won’t seem so difficult, and you might have a better chance of
    succeeding.
    10. Learn from mistakes. We all mess up sometimes — if you do, be forgiving,
    and don’t let one mistake derail you. See what happened, accept it, figure
    out a better plan for next time. Write this on your Quit Plan. Your plan will
    get better and better as you continually improve it. In this way, mistakes are
    helping you improve the method.
    I’m not saying this is an easy method, but many people have failed because they
    ignored the ideas here. Don’t be one of them. Put yourself all into this effort, find
    your motivation, and replace your habit with a better habit for each trigger. You
    got this.
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  • Maybe because writting is in habbit but you are'nt talking in english every time .
    make it a fun activity..talk to ur frnds in english..watch english movies..listen to english songs with lyrics..
    it may be a slow process...but u'll be speaking fluently sooner or later.
    have a nice day😊
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  • Start to think in English.
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  • due to thinking skill which is not fast if our grammar is correct but we can't speak correctly then must be we are not transforming sentences fastly.
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  • you are just thinking that you are cann't speak but i think you never tried to speak
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  • build confidence and improve ur vocabulary try to speak in front of a mirror and try to think in English … it will help uh a lot
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  • For proper speaking of english, try speaking with yourself in english and compulsory try to read news paper specially editorial papers, so that you will get to understand how to explain different things and how to present yourself
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  • The main issue of speaking correct English is to think in English.
    Start thinking in English and always try to speak to your self.
    Make yourself in an English environment,try to watch English t.v. series without any subtitles and try to understand every word and what they are meant to say,at first you may find it difficult,but once you get used to it you can understand every sentence and you can try to use them in your practice.
    Not to worry,no one's good in foreign languages by birth,it takes years of practice to master them.
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  • Just start it.
    some basics are taught by dance floor only, you cannot get it in dance room.
    make it your habit
     
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  • I have only one answer for ur question "u completely live in english" makes u a good english speaker.
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  • Hi dear, You may face this problem because of lack of practise in communication.Also daily reading some books or newspapers can enhance your vocabulary and grammar too.plus practise makes man perfect therfore try to use english as your regular language
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  • You have to make habit of listening, writing, speaking ,
    English speaking right or wrong no problem but u will try then can learn fast   ..
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  • Dear Juweriya, one thing I would recommend is to read as much as you can especially dramas.Dramas are written in dialogues between people.
    And don't forget to read out loud because that's the only way to improve your speaking skill.You can pick any kind which interests you.
    Reading and writing are complementary to each other. The more you read, the more proficient you will be in writing. :) 
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  • You are not able to speak correct english because your english grammar fundamentals are weak. Just open a good grammar boom and brush up your basic grammar topics like tenses, articles, prepositions and speech. Then start reading newspapers or books in english so that you understand the correct way of speaking. Finally keep thinking in English and speaking english as much as possible. I think this should help you improve your English.
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  • It's alright .it doesn't matter whether your grammer is correct or not they only want the matter which you are trying to express.Otherwise if you want to improve your speaking try to read english novels and thoghts comes in your mind and if you are thinking something in your mind try to think in english it improves your speaking.
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  • its all depends upon our practise and it will defenetly get improved if u frequently be communicating in english.....nothing to worry in that......even that happends with me 
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  • Writing and speaking are different capabilities. Try to talk to self in english, then try to talk to your friends(who are ready to co-operate with you in mentoring you) also in english. After a few days you will also start speaking  in English convincingly
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  • Practice by talking even it is wrong talk fluently day by day then you will have great talking in english
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  • Well, in order to write and speak in english, you need to inculcate the habit of reading and writing at the same time. My love for english developed with the habit of reading. Reading helps in improving the speaking power. Also, whenever you sit to write, make sure that you follow the rules of grammar.
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  • Sometimes it’s because of hegitation and pratice , i have sane problem too and i pratice it everday while watching movies , songs or while playing games . U will b good
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